Know the Lord Your God

Have you ever loved someone or something with ALL your heart, soul, mind and strength? It would seem to be an all-consuming task and one that would require an exhausting amount of energy.

We could argue that we come close to this standard when we relate to our spouses, family and children. However, this type of devotion still seems impossible to do all of the time.

Nevertheless, the Lord Jesus declares this as the most important commandment.

“The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘… Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’

The second commandment is this: “‘Love your neighbour as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.” (Mark 12:29-31 NIV)

A number of questions regarding this commandment come to mind. Some as fundamental as:

What is love?
What does it mean to love?
How do we love with our all?
What is meant by the heart, soul, mind and strength?
What does it mean to love an all-powerful God? Is it different to loving a human being?

All the above questions are noble undertakings and worthy of scriptural study. I won’t attempt to answer them but will propose another question – Why would we love God?

Sure, it is a command but commands invoke obedience or rebellion not love. So why would we love God? Well, why do we love anyone?

Fundamentally, we KNOW the individuals we love. It is impossible to truly love God until we know Him. True, we can go through ceremonial motions of devotion (privately or publicly) but this is just a form without power. Without genuine love it is all nothing.

How do you know God? God is found in the scriptures. Search the scriptures and you will find nuggets of thought finer than gold or silver.

Jesus prayed for us to know God now as this gives us a taste of things to come in the future.

“Now this is eternal life: that they KNOW you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent.” John 17:3

The scriptures tell of God’s goodness, power, wisdom and love. Please do not take my word for it but study for yourself and experience what gems He reveals to you through His word.

Growing Pains

Joshua is going through a growth spurt.  That means he’s up every 2-3 hours at night to feed.  It’s exhausting but extraordinary watching him develop – yesterday, he started to wave good-bye; today, he can sit up from lying down.  He’s also almost fully crawling on his hands and knees instead of combat-crawling, and almost able to pull himself up into a standing position.  Perhaps after gnawing though a few more boxes of teething rusks, he will also grow a second tooth.

Growth takes time.  It takes practice.  It takes effort.  It takes understanding that change happens in increments and cycles and at its own pace.

When it comes to spiritual growth, character development, or relationship intimacy, we can become impatient and discouraged when change seems impossible.  But don’t give up – the growing pains will lead to a growth spurt:

Screen Shot 2017-03-29 at 9.24.30 pm“Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.” (Galatians 6:7-10, NIV).

Keep sowing, watering, weeding, and fertilising the heart, life, and relationships – when autumn comes, the harvest will be beautiful.

7 Practical Tips on Perseverance

  1. Break things up into smaller tasks/goals
    • You can’t train for a marathon in one day – so do simple day-to-day tasks to train for bigger goals (ex: read & pray for just 5 minutes a day)
  2. Have a power song ready
    • Runners hit a wall where they feel like giving up – but if you push through it with a “power song” you will get your second wind, a renewal of God’s strength to sustain you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qwdCnY5lpAE
  3. Celebrate the victories, small and big
    • Every birthday is special, whether you’re turning 3 or 30 – celebrate the small accomplishments and milestones along your journey – treat yourself to a reward and know what you’re working towards so that you can remind yourself of the prize
  4. See failure as opportunity for growth
    • Failure is not failure if you can reflect on what made you stumble and learn ways to avoid repeating the mistake in the future – the key to success is to keep trying; practice makes perfect
  5. Build a community
    • Accountability is a powerful tool – surround yourself with people who are working towards similar goals and/or can support you in yours
  6. Take care of yourself
    • It’s hard to persevere when you’re tired, sick, or grumpy.  Sleep more.  Eat healthy.  Exercise.  Find hobbies that energise you.
  7. Keep your eyes on Jesus
    • Don’t compare yourself to others – just keep focused on Jesus who can empower us to do anything within His will

“Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinners, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.” Hebrews 12:1-3

Who can we trust in a post-fact world?

A few weeks ago I came across a new term that I had not heard before. ‘Post-fact world’ were the words that caught my ear. ‘How could we possibly live in a world where facts are a thing of the past?’ I wondered. So I decided to investigate.

I came across an article by Francis Fukuyama, senior fellow at Stanford University and Director of the Center on Democracy, Development and the Rule of Law, the man who seems to have coined the term. In his article The Emergence of a Post-Fact World he says, ‘One of the more striking developments of 2016 was the emergence of a “post-fact” world, in which virtually all authoritative information sources are challenged by contrary facts of dubious quality and provenance. In a world without gatekeepers, there is no reason to think that good information will win out over bad.’

Aside from any issues that may arise from who these gatekeepers may be, many instances came to mind where we can see so called facts being challenged by, to borrow Ms Conway’s term, alternate facts. If you haven’t heard what one of Donald Trump’s Counsellors said in response to false facts being spread by the White House Press Secretary you can watch it here – skip to about 1:35s. When it comes to the media, who even decides what is reported as fact?

In recent times, Fake News has become a big issue. Even Primary School Children are warned about the traps of fake news. See this story from BtN 28/11/16.

And we all know President Trump’s feelings on Fake News (or at least on certain news organisations).

It seems to me, in a post-fact world, some people don’t even need alternative facts to counter facts, they just flat-out refuse to accept facts in the first place. Take Senator Malcolm Roberts and Professor Brian Cox’s encounter on Q&A. You can skip to 3:25s if you’re not interested in Prof. Cox explaining why climate change is driven by man.

And then, of course, there’s social media… Opinion and slander flying about as fact, even straight out lying – remember Elizabeth “Elle” Edmunds? The mother who raised money online to treat her non-existent cancer.

But where am I going with all of this?

Frank Crane once said ‘You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you do not trust enough.’ So who or what can we trust in a post-fact world?

I would suggest that we can trust God’s Word.

God’s Word, the Bible, reveals the creator to us – ‘For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse.’ – Romans 1:20

In addition, the Bible comes directly from God – ‘All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness’ 2 Timothy 3:16

And, if you have any doubt in your mind as to the authority or even existence of God, we have been urged to seek proof through the accuracy of the scriptures –

Set forth your case, says the Lord;

bring your proofs, says the King of Jacob.

Let them bring them, and tell us

what is to happen.

Tell us the former things, what they are,

that we may consider them,

that we may know their outcome;

or declare to us the things to come.

Tell us what is to come hereafter,

that we may know that you are gods;

do good, or do harm,

that we may be dismayed and terrified.

Behold, you are nothing,

and your work is less than nothing;

an abomination is he who chooses you.

If we search the scriptures we will find that the record of history is accurate and predictions of the future have been fulfilled.

In a world of post-fact, fake news and alternate facts, we can rely on the Bible.

I urge all to read the Bible diligently, because only by reading it can one form their own opinion and learn about not only the Truth, but also the Way and the Life for ‘Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.’  – John 14:6

You can learn a lot from a baby…

You can learn a lot from a baby. Seriously. A baby will practice over 10,000 times to perfect a skill. That’s why they repeat the same exercise over and over again. They are skill-building experts.

Every morning they wake (EARLY) rearing to go practice. My 14 month old has learned to open the child proof safety latches on our cupboards. Thankfully he has also learned to listen to mom on which cabinets are his to open.

Did you know that your brain is wired for practice? I recently watched a talk on Neural Pathways.  Every time you practice a skill your neural pathways become more efficient at sending those signals to the parts of your body that allow you to do that specific skill.

How exactly? It is similar to when insulation is bound around cables wires. The thicker the insulation the less likely the signal is likely to be lost.

When you practice a skill such as music, singing, dancing, language, etc the insulation around those associated wires in your brain become thicker thus allowing you to master a skill over time with ease.

Have you ever seen a painter, pianist, dancer, orator, etc and said ‘They make it look so easy.’ That is the result of years and years of fortifying those neural pathways that give them that fluid skill.

Science is revealing the magnificence of creation on a scale never seen before. Yet King David in the Bible said ‘I am fearfully and wonderfully made.’ Psalm 139:14 and he didn’t even have a microscope!

So now it is your turn to put that ‘baby fortitude’ to work and make something ‘look’ easy for the benefit of others.

Corrections and counsel

I don’t often think of the Bible as the kind of book that would use the word stupid.

Oh, perhaps in an indirect sort of way with synonyms for stupid. I know the Gospels are full of parables about foolish builders who can’t keep a house standing, foolish bridesmaids who can’t keep their lamps lit, and foolish servants who can’t help being undone by their own schemes.

But … stupid?

So I was surprised when I came across this verse in Proverbs that seems surprisingly blunt:

“Whoever loves instruction loves knowledge, but he who hates correction is stupid.” (Proverbs 12:1)

The key thing here is that stupid is not a lack of knowledge – it’s an attitude. And it’s an attitude which stems from a lack of self-knowledge and a lack of desire to change that state. In other words … it’s less about what you know rather than what you do when you’re faced with the fact that you don’t actually know it all.

So… being stupid in this sense isn’t about intelligence at all. It’s an attitude of pride that scorns, resists and avoids opportunities to learn.

If you couldn’t handle being corrected, you’d never learn anything. Although we often think of learning as something that happens inside a classroom, the truth is every day is an opportunity to learn. We can learn from other people, learn from experience, learn from past mistakes. However the only way we can learn any of these things is if we recognise that there is something there for us to learn from. 

Proverb 12:15 goes on to say – “The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but he who heeds counsel is wise.”

Wisdom is defined by listening and responding to a wisdom beyond ourselves, just as knowledge comes from instruction. If you never open your eyes to other perspectives, you’ll never see beyond your own line of sight.

 

The Faith of a Child

UmbrellaClosedBlack3dmodel01.jpgd63121b3-70ae-4292-910e-a3960e98653bOriginalA few weeks ago, one of Micah’s friends was having an outdoor birthday party.  The forecast predicted rain for that day, which would have really put a damper on the party.  So Micah and I prayed that it would not rain so that our friends would not be stressed or sad.

As we were leaving for the party, I looked outside the window and saw dark clouds rolling in.  I grabbed an umbrella, just in case.  Micah looked at me putting the umbrella in the boot and asked, “Mommy, did we pray for no rain?”

I paused, trying to think of an answer that didn’t include a theological exposition on prayer, God’s will, or faith and works.  Finally, I just said, “Yes, we did.”  But the inquisition continued.  “Are you taking an umbrella, mommy?”

“Yes.”

“For the rain?”

“Well, just in case.”

“Just in case?”

“We prayed that it wouldn’t rain.  But God might have other plans.  So if it does rain, then we have the umbrella.  Prayer is not about getting God to do everything we want, but about us talking to God like a friend.  That means God as our friend does things for us, but sometimes we as His friends have to change what we want.   So if He needs it to rain, we have an umbrella.  But if He doesn’t need it to rain, then He will say yes to our prayer and it won’t rain.”

Micah had stopped listening by this point and was looking at diggers on the side of the road.

But I had learned my lesson.  When we arrived at the park, I took out the pram, the nappy bag, the glider, the present, the two boys … but I left the umbrella in the boot.

Although it was overcast, there was not a single drop of rain until the party was over and we were home.

Mark 10:13-16 People were bringing little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them, but the disciples rebuked them. When Jesus saw this, he was indignant. He said to them, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.”  And he took the children in his arms,placed his hands on them and blessed them.

Having the faith of a child is not about being naive or simple.  It’s about embracing the full possibility of what God promises – and experiencing the blessing of His presence.

To Err is Human

2014-Feb-08_0828_edited-11“To err is human, to forgive Divine.” (Alexander Pope, “Essay on Criticism“)

We all experience mistakes. Big or small we will both author and receive mistakes. Yet, mistakes give us the opportunity to experience the power of forgiveness.

The past week we had our hot water system burst. I walked into our tiled bathroom and slipped haphazardly on a thick and expanding film of water. My wobbly-legged one-year-old son followed close behind me. He grinned with excitement before I whipped him up out of the danger zone to his disappointment. After speaking with the real estate agent to contact a plumber, she asked me if I could access the hot water heater and turn it off. I quickly said yes but after hanging up it dawned on me that I have never turned off a hot water heater.

The first challenge was accessing the unit. It was behind a heavy wooden board in the bathroom tucked away behind the washing machine. To my surprise I shifted the washing machine away with ease. However, lifting the heavy wooden door was the real challenge.  I tried several times to lift the door but to no avail. I only managed to budge it a little. More water poured onto my tiles. I pushed harder. Sweat poured down my face and I remember thinking a dress was a poor choice for today. Finally the door budged and I could lift it out. What a relief! Now, it was just a matter of finding the water valve.

There were no clear instructions as I had hoped.

I quickly ‘Googled’ for the answer. A YouTube video instructed I would need an electrician! Meanwhile, water poured through the bathroom and the carpets were getting saturated around the outer bathroom walls.

Just then my husband walked in the front door from work.  After disappearing into the bathroom, he reappeared seconds later and said he turned the valve off. To my credit it was behind the cylinder making it difficult to see. I was so relieved it was off. Later that evening we learned that three units below us received water damage due to a defect on the building’s piping.

This drama did not come as a complete surprise to us. Three months prior we had the water heater assessed as we noticed rust in our hot water. Our real estate agent called me the next day to apologize. She had received approval from the owners to replace the hot water heater months ago but had forgotten to action the request. She asked if there was any damage to our personal items. There wasn’t but the carpets just needed to be dried. She remained professional but I sensed how disheartened she felt about the situation. I empathized with her and told her how things can slip through when you are juggling a number of requests. In addition, she was new to her role.

Later that day the owner called me directly and apologized. She was angry with the real estate agent. I did my best to try to sooth the situation.

The drama gave me thought on how easy it is for us to err and how difficult it is to either ask or grant forgiveness. Jesus said while instructing his disciples how to pray ‘Forgive us our sins, for we also forgive everyone who sins against us.” (Luke 11:4) He also said, “Blessed are the peacemakers…” (Matthew 5:9)

We live in an angry world. A world that demands repayment when they are wronged or even offended these days. In our moments of loss (or victimhood) we feel we must be compensated swiftly. It is not unnatural to feel this way nor is it unjust to demand a wrong to be fixed.

Yet in moments where we stand as the victim of someone else’s mistake or offence, we should remember the Lord Jesus Christ’s mind-blowing words to those that crucified Him.

He requested that they be forgiven. (Luke 23:34)

The Purge

Screen Shot 2017-02-12 at 10.33.11 pmOver the past few weeks I have noticed moths flying around the kitchen and pantry. I had been swatting them down when I could reach them and been pretty happy with myself when I got them. Then I started noticing the cocoons attached to the sides of some of my containers, and upon closer inspection, webbing in the dry powdery contents. Then I looked at a container of buckwheat and beans that I hadn’t opened in a while and to my disgust I found that inside the container there was not only webbing from the cocoon but actual moths that had hatched and were flying around trapped inside! How had it gotten to this?

I did a quick wikihow search and thus began the 8-step purge while Darrell kept my son out of mischief. First I had to throw out everything in my pantry that was flour, sugar, nuts, seeds, dried fruit, or anything that had any sign of the moths at any life-stage. That included anything that even looked like eggs. It was bagged and put out in the trash immediately (which went out that night since apparently it shouldn’t even be too close to the house).

Anything that looked clean but was still a likely target went into the freezer.  All the containers were scrubbed in hot soapy water with a toothbrush and left to dry completely. The shelves, doors and hinges were scrubbed as well, then sprayed with vinegar and tea tree oil. The whole surrounding region and any cracks or crevices were sprayed with bug spray and pantry moth traps were set.  Then the whole area left to air for 36 hours.

All the remaining items (bottles and cans) were inspected closely and sprayed with vinegar and tea tree oil for posterity.

Finally my pantry was looking incredibly clean (and empty) and the tension from the ordeal oozed away as I realised that the my kitchen and home were contaminant-free. But it was a somewhat guarded sense of relief as this was not the first time this had happened. And if the comments in the wikihow section were anything to go by, the moths would probably come back again.

Often moth eggs are in the flour and dry goods you buy and you don’t even realise it. Sometimes they are on the packaging. Some people recommend putting everything you buy in the freezer for a week before you shelve it so that any eggs inside will die.

I couldn’t help but think how similar this is to my life. Sometimes a couple of sins flit around. I smack them down and then continue on. But in reality those visible sins are often the metamorphosis of some tiny egg of a sin deep in my pantry. Who knows how they creep in. Perhaps it’s the lyric in a song or an ad in a magazine. It is often all wrapped up in life’s daily routines and slips in undetected. And if it goes unchecked it could hatch into a niggling worm of discontent that eventually metamorphoses into outbursts of anger and a broken relationship. Or perhaps a bit of stress and dissatisfaction leading to greed to fill the void.

Then the situation comes to a head and the only thing that will help is a complete surrender and overhaul by our Cleanser and Healer. After that, to keep things under control, I need to let Him examine my heart daily and keep the ‘moth traps’ set.

I may have lost hundreds of dollars worth of dry goods but a bad attitude could make me lose a lot more. Hopefully I have learned more than just a lesson on pantry cleanliness and will be more careful about the state of the storehouse in my heart – keep me in your prayers!

Inspired living

I got a store catalogue in the mail this week. Inside were an array of lovely (and oh-so-affordable!) homewares – everything from cushions, furniture, kitchen items, clothing and accessories. Nothing I need, but lots of things I could potentially convince myself I did.

As I was looking at it, the title of the catalogue caught my eye: Inspired Living.

Inspiration is certainly a go-to word right now: we use it to describe everything from celebrities to juice cleanses. Of course, the question behind any inspiration is – what is its source? In the case of the catalogue, the inspiration is driven by the latest design trends… lasting only as long as the trend remains trendy, before it’s replaced by the next latest thing.

True inspired living is not about owning a scented candle in the Pantone colour of the year (…Greenery, if you were curious), arranging framed motivational posters or gracing your kitchen with geometric fruit bowls in rose gold.  

Being a Christian is all about inspired living – it’s a life that is inspired, as a follower of Christ, to lead a life inspired by something greater than this world.

You won’t find it in a catalogue, because it’s not something that can be purchased with money.
You won’t discard it once a new season arrives, because it will stand the test of time.

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is–his good, pleasing and perfect will.

Romans 12:2

That’s what true inspired living looks like.